What I have for you today,
Today I am going to share the absolutely easy and best ways to fill your life with happiness and satisfaction.
So,before I get started,
Do yo agree?Yes you will have to because it definitely is.Happiness is nothing but your own choice.No one probably in the world is living a life that is without any problem.Problems and difficulties are like a second name for life.You cannot escape from them.But what you can do is prepare your self and be courageous to pass any tough situation.I know it seems very difficult.But it is not impossible.You just have to educate your mind and develop certain habits and of course leave some to do so.Once you learn the art of being happy,you will not look for the reasons to be happy.
So let’s now proceed to those amazing secrets where your happiness lies.
#1 RESPECT YOURSELF.
You are not a robot.You are a human filled with emotions and feelings.You have a limit.LISTEN,never you ever compromise with your self respect.Set your limits and do not let anyone and even yourself to cross them.Don’t force yourself into something that doesn’t makes you happy.And to do all this you will first have to learn to respect yourself.You don’t have to please anyone.Believe in me you never can.
”Go where you are celebrated,not where you are tolerated.”
Even if the entire world is happy with you it should not matter for you.What really matters is that are you happy with your self?
So make those decisions that doesn’t hurt your self respect.Try to be with the people who deserves you.
#2 FORGIVE OTHERS.
I think you will agree with this quote.If someone has really hurt you and you just can’t forget it then go a head tell them that they have hurt you and that you will not tolerate it.But don’t just keep such things in your heart.Your heart is not a dustbin to keep such junk in it.The most important step towards happiness is to keep your heart clean.Either talk to that person or forgive but please keep your heart clean.
#3 FORGIVE YOURSELF.
Now this is as important as forgiving others.You are a human.You can make mistakes.But sometimes we keep cursing ourselves for that one mistake and that wrong decision.Why?Please don’t be that strict with yourself.Try to correct your mistake,if it can’t be then just let it go.If you have hurt someone don’t be shy to say sorry (from your heart of course)but don’t hate your self for a wrong decision or a mistake.Really everyone at some point has made one.
When you accept your faults and forgive yourself,it is the time when you are really comfortable with what you are.It is the time when you are not”LOST FOR PERFECTION.”Finally it is the time when happiness and satisfaction hugs you.
#4 BE THANKFUL
So you think that you don’t have a reason to be thankful.Let me correct you here;
- According to UNICEF,22,000 children die each day due to poverty.
- 783 million people don’t have access to clean water.
- 2.5 billion don’t have access to adequate sanitation.
- 100 million people are homeless.
- 6-8 million people die annually from consequences of diseases and water related problems.
- 775 million people are illiterate around the world.
Do you need more reasons,probably not.
The best way to be thankful is that just grab a paper and pen and write all the possible things you can think that can convince you to be thankful.Like you can see.you can talk,you can write,you can read,you can hear,you have a family,you have a house and most importantly you can breathe means you have a life and you still have a chance to change it.So go work hard to change your life.Be courageous.I know you are stronger than your problems.
We are not living alone in the world.There are 7 billion people in this world,so there are 7 billion perspectives.I know 7 billion people are not associated with you but surely a number of them are.So you need to respect their perspectives and wishes too.Just always don’t be bossy.Sometimes do compromise.When you don’t compromise,life just becomes too hard for you.And in this situation you are actually closing the doors of happiness for you.So learn to compromise.
#6 HELP OTHERS.
It is quite obvious.Right!Helping others give you a sort of inner peace of happiness.Whenever you can help others.One other amazing thing you can do is DONATE.Donating is again helping others and you will get a lot of prayers and wishes for yourself and you will happy and satisfied.
#7 STAY CLOSE TO YOUR FRIENDS BUT CLOSER TO YOUR FAMILY.
Now your family is surely the biggest blessing of your life.We know that but still we sometime cannot realize it,may be because we are searching for the friends outside the family.A friend doesn’t necessarily have to be outside your family.Believe in me,you can find an amazing friend within your family.It may be your mother or maybe your brother.Make sure you have at least one person in your family with whom you can discuss your problems and ask for suggestions.Because you know what they will never expose your secret to the world,neither they will feel happy to see you in problem and they will suggest you something valuable.Spend more time with your family.A family is definitely all about happiness.
#8 STOP WORRYING FOR YOUR FUTURE.
Worrying for future an ruin the present moments that you have in your hands.You surely need to plan a bit for your future but don’t completely indulge yourself in the worries of future.So the solution for this is very easy.Trust God.Yes simple is that.Just trust that is he capable of handling all your problems and he is always there for you in any situation.
#9 FAKE IT AND MAKE IT/BE SECRETIVE.
You have heard this phrase a lot,because it is really useful,the way you tell your mind your brain will in turn make you feel like that.But here we are using this phrase in another sense.Just a little tip to stay happy is that be secretive and don’t tell your problems to everyone.Because many doesn’t care,some will be happy and even if one of your friends is quite trustworthy then by telling your problems you will loose your dignity and there are always the time when you regret for telling your problems.So let people think that you are happy because your problems will end today or tomorrow anyways. TIP TOP TIPS
- Discipline is the key to happiness.Organize your life.
- Spend some time with the elder members of your family.
- Have a balanced diet and exercise frequently.
- Enjoy nature.You will feel much relaxed and happy when you are closed to nature.
- Try to make your life as simple as possible.
- And lastly,crush all your problems and haters with that smile and let everyone know that you are stronger than they think.
WHAT DO YOU THINK
What kind of people actually have an influence on your happiness?
Have the happiest life ahead.